The people on the planet just now are probably THE most manipulated in human history when it comes to wants. We get so many messages, telling us what we want, it can be difficult to really listen to our own truth.
I feel it’s my job as a coach to help people tap into their deeper knowing. I want to save people from pushing themselves up a ladder, one struggling step at a time, only to find out later that they’ve put their ladder against the wrong wall.
Take Samantha. When she called me, she told me she wanted to get married. As I probed further, I learned her partner wasn’t so sure he wanted this. Then, I asked her what she hoped being married would accomplish.
“It would give me a sense of security. I would know I’m loved.”
I asked her to think about her friends and family to see if “feeling secure and loved” were the inevitable result of marriage
I could hear her wince.
“Well, I guess with the divorce rate at 50%, that’s not always the case.”
I invited her to explore other ways she might deepen her feeling of being loved and secure from within herself. Now things got interesting.
As we did this, she started feeling more and more powerful. Obviously, she was liking not having her well-being depend on external circumstances. And, of course, as she took responsibility for creating her own feelings of being loved and secure, she stopped putting pressure on her significant other. And of course, when her significant other felt free to give to her or not, he became a much more responsive partner.
So, when you’re thinking about what you want, go deeper. Ask yourself what you imagine this item, event, or experience will give you on the inside. Once you know this, see if you can just create it on your own. I have developed a whole bunch of ways to help people do what I call energy modulation, so if you want to go deeper with this, click “Free Ideas” up in the menu bar to set up a free idea session.
Meanwhile, here is something I loved that I wanted to share with you:
Would you like to set up and run your own website? Or revamp your current one so you can manage it yourself?
Tomorrow, Christina Hills is having a tele-seminar on how to do just that. I can personally attest to what a great teacher Christina is, as I took her Website Creation Workshop last year and loved it. I’m not only a non-techie, I’m tech-less!– but through her tutorials and videos, she shows you how to set up a WordPress website, even adding photos, audio and video. I not only revamped this site, personalbest.org, but I created a whole new one at http://www.happinessanyway.com
And instead of it being a gruelling, hair-pulling out experience, I found it fun and creative.
In the class tomorrow, she’ll explain how it all works, with pictures, handouts and non geeky web talk. The class is a 10 am pacific time and 1 EST and it’s free. To find out more, go to:
Or, if you can’t make the call, go here: